Thursday, March 15, 2007

What We Can Learn From Our Children!

This morning I had a humbling and special experience with Matthew that I wanted to share mostly because this is one of those gems that will be etched in my memory hopefully for the rest of my life! Here's what happened. I was trying to get myself and all three kids ready for the day and I was in a hurry (hurry- the story of my life!). Matthew and Jared ended up outside in my backyard in their pj's and no shoes enjoying the warm weather and sunshine. I assumed they were getting ready to make mud with the hose. I quickly opened the bedroom window to tell them both to come in and I saw Matthew standing there listening to something. I interrupted his listeneing and said, "Matthew, you and Jared need to come in now and get dressed and ready to go! (we were going hiking) Matthew held his hand up toward me and said, "Shhhh! I'm listening." The birds were chirping all sorts of beautiful songs so I said, "Are you listening to the beautiful birds?" He paused and said very seriously, "No. I'm listening to Heavenly Father." Needless to say, I wasn't expecting that answer so I took a breath and quietly said, "Ok, come in when you're done." Then I shut the window to reflect on his comment. I was overwhelmed with a feeling of love and humility toward him as a child of God (not just my child) and I felt more strongly than ever the magnitude of my calling as his mother to teach and nurture his faithful spirit. Matthew came in about five minutes later and got dressed. Then he came to me and said in a cheery voice, "Mom, Heavenly Father told me that I would grow up and bless people who are sick and be a prophet and be a missionary." He then paused and corrected himself, "No, I'm not going to be a prophet, but I am going to bless people who are really sick and I am going to be a missionary." I gave him a big hug and reassured him that I would help to teach him the things Heavenly Father would want him to do so he can grow up to do those things. Needless to say, I feel humble to have a son who teaches me through his actions the things I need to be doing in my life. Life lesson for today: Don't forget to take time to listen to those who matter most!!

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I want to cry just reading that. Isn't it amazing the gift of children that God has blessed us with? I don't always stop to appreciate it but I am thankful everyday that God has blessed me with the amazing opportunity to be a mother to Emma and whatever children I will have in the future. Thanks for sharing such a spiritual moment with us.

Unknown said...

Thank you for sharing this story. It was wonderful that you took the time to let him listen instead of rushing him on.